A Women’s Struggle for Love
A women’s issue with getting married, and attracting the wrong men is much deeper than just choosing better men. If her heart is not healed from the extreme desire for love because of insecurity, or from the rejection of love because of fear, or a combination of them both she will find herself in manipulative and shallow relationships. These are relationships with men that push the right buttons to keep her engaged but the relationship is not good for her, or she will find herself with men that only want to be friends or friends with benefits attracting these types of men because of her own rejection of true love, or a combination of both.
The Issue with attracting true love
Underneath this issue is a woman who doesn’t believe that she’s worthy of love, doesn’t believe that she can trust anyone to love her, or a combination of both. Which is a distrust of people and herself to meet her need for love. The woman who feels unworthy of love is a woman who didn’t get to experience the love and attention she needed growing up. A woman who distrusts people and avoids love is a woman who learned how to turn her emotions off, she was convinced that the only way to receive love is if she gives it to herself. This is the independent woman “I don’t need a man” in all her ways. She learned that she can’t trust people to love her, so she no longer expects it. The woman who doesn’t trust love from others or loves herself is a woman who is scattered in her soul. She is a woman who is wavering in wanting love but afraid to receive it. So, she allows a little love in just enough for her comfort level thus producing almost but not quite right connections with men. This is a woman who may meet some pretty good men but she’s unable to go all in with these men because of fear.
The Solution to finally attracting true love
The solution for all 3 types of women is learning love for themselves through God and learning how to trust people with discernment through the word of God. This is how I help women.
In The Ready for Love 12-week process, women go from attracting the wrong men to attracting good men for marriage. At the end of The Ready for Love process, women are in the position to finally receive the love they truly desire and marry the man of their dreams.
Book a love life consultation with me to see if The Ready for Love process is what you need to align your life with destiny to suddenly experience true love.
