How do you know when you’re at a place where you are attracting better men? Men who are healthy and secure versus men who are unhealthy and insecure. After a woman has done some work on herself, she can feel that this is all she needs to have better relationships.
We attract people based on what we’re full of. The thoughts, feelings, and emotions, the things you do that dominate your life, you attract men based on this. Not just a little work here and there on how you think and feel about things. It’s your patterns that matter.
Attraction is all about the realm or dimension you dwell in and live in. When you have a healthy state of mind, regulated emotions, healthy and clear thoughts, emotionally stable where your emotional needs are being met and tended to, feel good, complete, and whole, you will find everything in your life will fall in alignment with this.
This is flowing in what I like to call the glory zone, high dimensions; it’s where the blessings of God are, so it’s inevitable that you meet men who match all of this.
Then there are lower dimensions; this has nothing to do with money or status it has to do with who you are underneath. This is where a woman who’s going in the right direction but still needs work will flow in.
Because her dominating thoughts and feelings towards things are still laced with things of the past, she will find herself attracting men who are a little better but not quite right. At this level, you can still experience unhealthy attractions and have unhealthy attachments, and this is because the work you’re doing on yourself still needs time to stick.
It still needs time to take over in your life.
Continue to do the work on yourself, even when it feels like “you’ve arrived.” Again, It doesn’t have to be 100% perfect, but this version of yourself needs to be in the driving seat in everything you do.
The more you become the woman God has called you to be in totality. The men you attract will change to fit that.
